ATTENTION:
They Lied To You About Belonging...
New Book Reveals How Queer Men Can Transform Loneliness into Unshakeable Longterm Belonging—Without More
Social Performance, Dating Apps, or Community Events
(And It's Why Loneliness Still Haunts You Even When You're Not Alone)
"A humble and authentic contemplation of loneliness and connectedness... This ebook is certainly a reflective and an edifying work for queer men!"
Dr. Alex Lazo, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
"Kudos to Dr. Wasson for creating this one-of-a-kind resource that debunks the myths of loneliness and being alone... Many lives will be transformed through this work!!"
Sylvia Morales, MLS, CPC, Founder of FluidMind Coaching
"Dr. Wasson's reflections challenged me to rethink what it really means to feel lonely. Realizing that my loneliness often stems from a false story I’ve told myself was revelatory."
Jerami B.
ATTENTION: They Lied To You About Belonging...
New Book Reveals How Queer Men Can Transform Loneliness into Unshakeable Longterm Belonging—Without More
Social Performance, Dating Apps, or Community Events
(And It's Why Loneliness Still Haunts You Even When You're Not Alone)
"A humble and authentic contemplation of loneliness and connectedness... This ebook is certainly a reflective and an edifying work for queer men!"
Dr. Alex Lazo, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
"Kudos to Dr. Wasson for creating this one-of-a-kind resource that debunks the myths of loneliness and being alone... Many lives will be transformed through this work!!"
Sylvia Morales, MLS, CPC, Founder of FluidMind Coaching
"Dr. Wasson's reflections challenged me to rethink what it really means to feel lonely. Realizing that my loneliness often stems from a false story I’ve told myself was revelatory."
Jerami B.
STOP CHASING CONNECTION
START CREATING IT
Tyler Wasson, Psy.D. invites you into a groundbreaking, nature-based journey that flips everything you thought you knew about loneliness on its head.
You're thoughtful. Self-aware. You've done the therapy, read the books, maybe even built community.
Yet that aching sense of disconnection still lingers.
It’s not because you’re broken. It’s because you’ve been sold a false story.
The Shocking Truth About Why You're Still Lonely
Most queer men try to solve loneliness by becoming better at connection: more dates, more charisma, more chosen family. But what if that entire approach is backwards?
New research and direct lived experience reveal a countercultural truth:
Belonging isn't something you earn. It's something you remember.
When you stop performing and start turning inward—through mindfulness, nature, and emotional honesty—you stop chasing connection and start being it.
Attracting into your life the exact things you’ve been chasing all along, with ease.
Why Traditional Advice Keeps You Trapped
Everything from gay culture to self-help tells you to "find your people."
But if you're still disconnected from yourself, no amount of social validation will fill that void.
The more you chase belonging out there, the more you abandon the part of you that's already whole.
See, I Was Just Like You…
After coming out at 26, I thought the loneliness would finally vanish. I did all the things—dated, built community, tried to be the most "authentic" version of myself.
And yet, I was still the loneliest person in the room.
Even as a therapist, even with all the tools, I couldn’t shake the ache.
It wasn’t until I stepped away from the noise—into nature, into silence, into myself—that I realized something. I started to see a pattern:
Loneliness isn’t a lack of connection. It’s a learned misperception of separateness.
Once I saw through that lie, everything changed.
This book is your invitation to make that same shift. The invitation I needed, but never received.
Introducing
The N.A.T.U.R.E. Formula™
A 6-Stage Journey from Loneliness to
Unshakeable Belonging
Navigating Mindfulness
Learn foundational mindfulness techniques to anchor yourself in present-moment experience.
Awareness-ing Thoughts, Allowing Emotions
Develop emotional awareness and resilience by distinguishing thoughts from emotions.
Transforming Loneliness
Redefine loneliness as a misperception of reality, a false story that can be shed.
Unveiling Reality
Discover intraconnection—your deeper bond with yourself and the universe.
Reawakening Awe and Wonder
Reignite curiosity and joy through mindfulness within everyday experiences.
Embodying Your True Self
Integrate practices and awareness of intraconnection into daily life for lasting change.
Each step builds on the last to help you stop seeking connection externally and start remembering the wholeness that’s already within you.
STOP CHASING CONNECTION
START CREATING IT
Tyler Wasson, Psy.D. invites you into a groundbreaking, nature-based journey that flips everything you thought you knew about loneliness on its head.
You're thoughtful. Self-aware. You've done the therapy, read the books, maybe even built community.
Yet that aching sense of disconnection still lingers.
It’s not because you’re broken. It’s because you’ve been sold a false story.
The Shocking Truth About Why You're Still Lonely
Most queer men try to solve loneliness by becoming better at connection: more dates, more charisma, more chosen family. But what if that entire approach is backwards?
New research and direct lived experience reveal a countercultural truth:
Belonging isn't something you earn. It's something you remember.
When you stop performing and start turning inward—through mindfulness, nature, and emotional honesty—you stop chasing connection and start being it.
Attracting into your life the exact things you’ve been chasing all along, with ease.
Why Traditional Advice Keeps You Trapped
Everything from gay culture to self-help tells you to "find your people."
But if you're still disconnected from yourself, no amount of social validation will fill that void.
The more you chase belonging out there, the more you abandon the part of you that's already whole.
See, I Was Just Like You…
After coming out at 26, I thought the loneliness would finally vanish. I did all the things—dated, built community, tried to be the most "authentic" version of myself.
And yet, I was still the loneliest person in the room.
Even as a therapist, even with all the tools, I couldn’t shake the ache.
It wasn’t until I stepped away from the noise—into nature, into silence, into myself—that I realized something. I started to see a pattern:
Loneliness isn’t a lack of connection. It’s a learned misperception of separateness.
Once I saw through that lie, everything changed.
This book is your invitation to make that same shift. The invitation I needed, but never received.
Introducing...
The N.A.T.U.R.E. Formula™
A 6-Stage Journey from Loneliness to
Unshakeable Belonging
Navigating Mindfulness
Reclaim movement as medicine. Rediscover the pleasure of being fully alive in your body.
Awareness-ing Thoughts, Allowing Emotions
Breathe like you belong here. Use your breath to regulate, speak truth, and return to center.
Transforming Loneliness
Let go of old stories and perfectionism through somatic healing and emotional expression.
Unveiling Reality
Feed your body with devotion. Build grounded, sensual rituals that reconnect you with your rhythm.
Reawakening Awe and Wonder
Ditch the extremes. Structure and flow are no longer enemies — they’re your natural and effortless rhythm.
Embodying Your True Self
Integrate practices and awareness of intraconnection into daily life for lasting change.
What Others Are Saying
What Others
Are Saying
What You'll Discover Inside
Why loneliness gets worse the harder you try to escape it
How the nervous system holds the key to true belonging
Nature as your greatest teacher (no tent required)
Practices that reveal you’re already whole—no fixing necessary
How to build presence, not personas
Why connection becomes effortless once you stop performing
Is This Right For You?
This journey is for queer men who are:
Burned out from dating app fatigue and curated identities
Tired of striving to "earn" connection
Ready to stop fixing and start remembering
Craving real presence and internal peace
This is NOT for those who:
Want quick hacks to be more likable
Think mindfulness is woo-woo nonsense
Aren’t ready to get honest with themselves
What You'll
Discover Inside
Why loneliness gets worse the harder you try to escape it
How the nervous system holds the key to true belonging
Nature as your greatest teacher (no tent required)
Practices that reveal you’re already whole—no fixing necessary
How to build presence, not personas
Why connection becomes effortless once you stop performing
Is This Right For You?
This journey is for queer men who are:
Burned out from dating app fatigue and curated identities
Tired of striving to "earn" connection
Ready to stop fixing and start remembering
Craving real presence and internal peace
This is NOT for those who:
Want quick hacks to be more likable
Think mindfulness is woo-woo nonsense
Aren’t ready to get honest with themselves
About Tyler Wasson
Tyler Wasson, Psy.D. is a queer-identified clinical psychologist who’s spent over a decade supporting the inner lives of LGBTQ+ clients. After years of struggling with his own persistent loneliness—even as a therapist—he discovered a path to unshakeable belonging that didn’t require more social performance, but a deeper kind of seeing. He now teaches others how to make that same shift.
Ready to Stop Feeling Lonely—Even When You're Not Alone?
© Copyright 2025 Queering Connection. All rights reserved.
About Tyler Wasson
Tyler Wasson, Psy.D. is a queer-identified clinical psychologist who’s spent over a decade supporting the inner lives of LGBTQ+ clients. After years of struggling with his own persistent loneliness—even as a therapist—he discovered a path to unshakeable belonging that didn’t require more social performance, but a deeper kind of seeing. He now teaches others how to make that same shift.
Ready to Stop Feeling Lonely—Even When You're Not Alone?
© Copyright 2025 Queering Connection. All rights reserved.